So I've Come To A Realization That I Have An Interest In Girls. Not Only That But I Feel That I Could Never Comsumate The Relationship With A Guy. I Know That If I Told My Mother She Wouldn't Agree & Wouldn't Be Okay With This. I Feel That She Would Detest Me If I Told Her. I'm Also Having Trouble Accepting This...
As I’ve said in previous answers, I to had problems accepting myself for about 4 years. Being raised in a strict baptist christian household, I detested my own self. But slowly I learned there is nothing I could really do about it, and learned to accept myself. I was never truly happy until I stopped lying to myself aswell. There is absolutely nothing wrong with liking the same gender either. Homosexuality is nothing new, it’s been around for as long as organisms, etc have. And it may take your mother time, but eventually she will. She loves you, and if you take it slowly step by step it should be okay :) Think positive! x
i just feel really bad. i've just been thinking about a lot of bad things, and things that hadn't upset me in the past are now making me feel terrible. i feel gross and disgusting when i eat. i don't know what to do..
Rid the negative thoughts. Don’t let them get to you. Remember that you control your emotions, you choose to happy, or sad. Make the choice to think positive! Don’t dwell on it. Beauty is only skin deep. Don’t let society make you perceive yourself in a negative manner. Push through those thoughts, because you’re better than that. Surround yourself with things and people that make you happy, I promise things will get better. :) x
I'm about to give up everything. Life is and has always been so fucked up. Every night when I go to bed I hope that I will never wake up again, and when I do wake up I just want to cry and kill everyone around me. My father beats me up almost everyday since I was 5 years old. My mom hates me because I'm bisexual. My class beat me up. Everyone is telling me it would be better if I was dead, I'm not worth anything. And so much more. I cut and starve. I can't do this anymore. I will kill myself.
Don’t let the thoughts consume you. If you believe the negative people around you it will do no good. There is alot you can do to change the current situation, trust me. Use that ‘fuck you’ attitude to good use, one thing that really helped me through it, was saying ‘I will succeed, while I watch you all fail’ Basically, fuck them live for yourself. Don;t give up just yet. I’m here for you, remember that please. (I can’t go in depth with this because I don’t have alot of insight on the current situation) x
I think I'm losing it. Between unconsciously ripping out my hair in class, to coming home from school and going straight to bed. I think about suicide everyday, at school throwing myself down the staircase, at home taking handfuls of pills or à la mode bathtub. Who knows, I surely don't. I started cutting again, I've been spazzing about my weight since elementary school. I eat one meal a day and if I happen to consume more I throw up. Am I pathetic or is it time for help? I'm sorry...
I’d really like to go more in depth with this with you, because this is something that can be helped, and is something you can get through and overcome. You are not pathetic, please do not think you are. Don’t be sorry, feeling pity will only suck you down even more. Not to mention it is a huge step to realize and accept help when you need it, and for that I for one am very proud of you for. You haven’t lost it, and it’ll be okay. If you ever feel like your loosing, remember I’m always here, and accepting help is always something to consider. You’re stronger than this. <3
I am a lesbian completely, but I thought by gay bashing and pretending to be homophobic would cover it up. People are stating to catch on though, they are asking me about it. I don't want to come out and I don't want to be a lesbian. I just don't know what to do...
Ah, that’s no good babe. I was kind of skeptical myself at first, and refused to accept if for some odd years, being brought up in a strict religious home. But trust me when I say, you will never be truely happy untill you accept every part of yourself. You can’t change who you are, and as it will take time, you will come to terms. Have an open mind, it’ll be okay.
Do you know of any stores or something to get cheaper clothes and things similar to yours? Ive wanted to dress kind of similar to how you do for years but cant afford it. :/
Ah, I’m not really a great help when it comes to stuff like this haha. I’m also constantly changing my look, and am in the middle of re-newing a completely different wardrobe for myself. But I say thrift stores! I was just basically doing an every day grungy vintage hooker kind of look back some months ago haha. Not hard to achieve if your a smart shopper!
What would you recommend for losing weight kinda fast? Like exercises, what to eat and drink and how much and things like that?
I lost abit of weight around the beginning of the year, and to maintain that, and also maintain a healthy system, rethinking your food choices is always great. Veggies, Fruits, some meats, wheat’s, etc. Proportioning foods out correctly, and eating things high in all the lovely things you need. Aswell as for exercising, I have a personal gym, in which I go to everyday, or atleast 5 times a week. Treadmills, Elliptical, yoga, running, and centering certain workouts for toning my legs are my basics! Research research :)
do you think its wrong to date your bestfriends ex.
It completely depends on the circumstances. It can definitely make things about odd, and if the friend still has feelings for said ex, etc. Communication is key! Also, ‘Relationships will come and go, but friends are forever’ Keep your friends closer? And all of those other lovely little quotes haha.
Hi, what would you do if you have a friend that pretends to like something just to be your friend. For example ihave a friend that pretends to like Nirvana but she actually likes Justin Bieber, one direction and other pop bands and one day she said"oh nirvana is so cool, i´ve heard the song smells like... I dont remember and i have it on my cellphone" what would you do or say to this girl?. Im a girl btw.
It’s basically a passing phase when this happens. She just wants you to like her more perhaps, saying she likes it to ‘fit in’. It can be pretty annoying, but you can either over look her maybe, or try talking to her about it? x
Hey Darcy, what would you do if theres a girl that all the time that she see you starts playing with her hair, maybe she wants to make you feel jealous or something like that. Dont tell me to do the same because actually i started it, i wanted to see what she would do if i do that and she just copy me, she did exactly what i did. What would you do if this happens to you, but you cant say anything to her, you can just do something, hope you understand this.
I think I understand what your asking? haha. I had this problem all through out junior high haha. Lots of girls copied me, but there’s not much you can do. It basically means they look up to you, or want to be like you. I think it’s rather flattering. I know it can be annoying, but just take it as a compliment :) x